‘No’, ‘Nope’ and ‘Nah’ these are not very common words for individual to use in normal situation, one should have enough dare to nod his head while refusing. One can feel heroic while saying NO to anyone as a response of any question.
Most of us feel hesitation while denying to anybody. We think that our friend will feel shocking if we say NO to that person. Actually it’s only our thinking which restricts us to say NO but if our friends really need us and care for us then they are supposed to accept NO as the answer. Here question doesn’t matter at all. Only say yes if you feel comfortable and if not than you can disagree with them.
Saying No to anyone is not a sign of rudeness or anything like that but it is your manner of reacting without hesitation. If you believe in this way of reaction you will surely live life happily and will also be able to know what people think about you.
Deliberate an example here; just think! Any of your fellows asks you to go with him for roaming and you suddenly say yes to him that is the most common thing we are doing generally, but what I want to say is totally different. If you agree with him all the time then he will be habituated to your positive react but if you disagree with him then he will have a chance to think that why you have denied! It will make your relation stronger than before, your disagreement will lead him toward a new thinking and he will realize that it’s not necessary that respondent will agree with you all the time.
This philosophy is somewhat devious but it works in actual practice, one should implement this once if he/she really wants to understand this.