Most people don’t know the importance of the tongue in the process of coitus or just casual make-out. There are certain rules, boundaries, which if kept in mind could amount up to surreal pleasure. Some tricks up your sleeve would never harm anyone. Here are certain stuff that could be and should be done to enhance your experience.
1. Make a Move
Don’t hold yourself back from making the move. Don’t ask if you can kiss. Perhaps start off with a forehead kiss, and then a kiss on the tip of the nose – then go in for a kiss. Pull your love close to you by the waist and tell them how good their lips taste on your tongue.
2. Start Slowly
Use the right amount of pressure. Hold down your horses. There is a chance that both of you just want to do it. But progression will always spice it up. Don’t come out too strong. Mirror your pace with the other person. Ease into it. Sometimes people are anxious and jump into the kiss. It’s not smooth and it can get awkward. Make sure it’s mutual and start with meaningful eye contact.
3. Be Passionate.
Use your tongue wisely. Try just gently touching your tongue to your partner’s at first. Imagine that your tongues are softly caressing each other. Don’t jab at your partner with your tongue, and don’t put too much of your tongue into their mouth. Just gentle caresses. What makes French kissing good is being present but also being passionate. Just be in the moment. When you’re French kissing with someone you’re saying ‘I have passion for you. I want to connect deeper. I want to build intimacy with you.’ It’s a profound act of showing interest, care and love. You’re trying to communicate to someone that you care about them; don’t be so obsessed with technique.
4. Try and get your body involved too.
Wrap your arms around your partner’s body, or stroke their arms, shoulders, and back with your hands. Press your body up against theirs. Hold their face in your hands, or run your hands through their hair. You can also take little breaks from their lips to kiss their necks or ears. Use your body to create some variety. Don’t leave your hands in your pocket or limp at your sides. Use them! There’s literally so many sexy and sweet ways you can use your hands while your making out.
5. Open your eyes.
Now that you’ve got the basics down, try opening your eyes. When most people think of kissing, they think of closed eyes. But making eye contact before the kiss and during the kiss can make the experience more intimate.
6. Get Lost In The Moment!
Don’t be dead. Take that whirly ride in your head and empty your head. Get into and bring your excitement and passion. Allow yourself to let go. Don’t focus on the fact that if the person likes it. If you are into it, so is your partner. Have a good one, chica!